Recently I found out that the woman I care dearly for, the same woman I would be willing to kill for or die for had been told by one of my good friends that he loves her.

...he never spoke of it to me, she accidentally told me. She has known for some time and was "protecting" him.

I'd have gladly given my life for this.. can't even bring myself to call him a man. This fool, I'd have died for, I was even trying to help him get back with his ex, whom he ADMITTED to me he still loved.

No good deed goes unpunished right? Well seems I cannot be good at all anymore.

This rant is me wondering why the fuck I bother, why the hell I should trust her, and why the hell I should forgive him.

Gimme some help here guys and gals... give me some reason not to just stop talking to either of them and just say fuckit and walk away... because I have NOTHING in my head right now.

Because she did not act on it, and she did not think it matterted any way since she likes you.

Yes, but she still didn't tell me something, i've hidden nothing from her that wouldn't honestly hurt her and thats just because i know if she found out about this? It would hurt her TERRIBLY to know.

I've been fully honest with her, then she turns around and does this? and the guy? He fucking TOLD HER that he would wait around...

Ok, thats dickish, but was he in the right state of mind when he said it.

...meaning was he sober?

Yes.

People equal shit, my friend. It's a good thing to remember.

because the reason they didnt tell you was so that you could still remain friends with that person, and by telling you it would have injured or strained that relationship. by not telling you she was in fact protecting you.

furthermore, being a person means being able to care for others. why should you feel betrayed that she would try to protect the both of you?

Because its wrong, because by lying to me, by BOTH of them just letting me go on along like nothing at all happened? They strained my realtionship with BOTH of them.

Him for not even THINKING to mention it to me.

Her for covering it up.

SettingSun wrote:

Recently I found out that the woman I care dearly for, the same woman I would be willing to kill for or die for had been told by one of my good friends that he loves her.

...he never spoke of it to me, she accidentally told me. She has known for some time and was "protecting" him.

I'd have gladly given my life for this.. can't even bring myself to call him a man. This fool, I'd have died for, I was even trying to help him get back with his ex, whom he ADMITTED to me he still loved.

No good deed goes unpunished right? Well seems I cannot be good at all anymore.

This rant is me wondering why the fuck I bother, why the hell I should trust her, and why the hell I should forgive him.

Gimme some help here guys and gals... give me some reason not to just stop talking to either of them and just say fuckit and walk away... because I have NOTHING in my head right now.

It would seem that you're going to have to trust her unconditionally. It sounds as if she had no part with what your friend felt, something your friend should have been smart enough to control if you really meant anything to him.

I can understand you forgiving the girl, if you truely love her then any situation can be worked out, as for your friend...He obviously showed no respect of love for you so I suggest you give him the same. Treat others how you wish to be treated, correct? He sounds like a piece of human shit that doesn't deserve to feel love.

You should trust her because you two share love, however your friend sounds like a greedy little shit whom you shouldn't surround yourself with.

Jesse, if that were true this entire situation would be done and over with.

She betrayed my trust as did he, the both of them hurt me in separate ways.

Between her and I there are supposed to be no secrets... but this?

Between him and I there we were almost brothers... and then to just turn around and do this? Not having the decency or respect to say anything to me?

That's what it is.

Overall she makes you happy. Happier then anything. Your friend fucked up by betraying your trust.
You don't even have to forgive him, is how fucked up what your friend did.

As for the girl, I think she tried to keep the peace on both ends, she knew what he meant to you, and she knew what she meant to you.

This will most likely change things with her, but you should understand it wasn't her fault. She should be forgiven, what you do with your friend is entirely up to you. Personally I wouldn't give him the time of day...

She does make me happy... but this was a dagger in the back.

She betrayed our trust, she broke what i thought was perfect.

As for my friend? I don't know... maybe someday i'll be able to talk to him again. He's on his own with everything though

The dagger was yielded by the friend, not the girl.

The way you talk about her, she was very vulnerable. She was looking for compassion, but you were not quick enough.

If you really love her, you'll not leave her. Keep her close, prove to her how much she means to you. If you leave, it would seem like all you wanted to do was get laid.

As for your friend, you and he need to have a very serious talk. Keep the fighting to a minimum, though. It looks bad when you start fighting your best friend over a girl. Some girls like to actually break guy friend relationships up because its fun.

Some girls like tough guys, some prefer the quiet ones. I prefer the ones that would be willing to take a few unprovoked punches for me. <3 <3 <3 <3

A talk might help, or it might not. I dunno =\

You know what will cheer you up?
MS Paint Relationships!

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Bahahahaha

Dam kon, just dam

Ouch!



But I lol'd

....Konny.
That was the funniest fucking thing I've ever seen in my life.

...I laughed until I cried...

then I laughed some more.

@ Jennifer, this girl means so much to me, we've been together for so long...

and she didn't want to break up the relationship... and tells me she didn't respond to him admitting his love for her...

I can't blame him for loving her, what I am angry and upset about is that neither of them ever thought to tell me... it would be the same as me shooting myself in the foot and not mentioning anything about it until I went to dance with someone.